Gratitude is like the sky.
For me showing Gratitude is a way of savouring the fleeting moments in life. The moments I would take for granted and forget immediately while the big dramatic events and annoyances would linger for days on end.
So I have taught myself to savour the moment. To slow down and to notice things and than to write them down.
Now as I look back on my piles of Gratitude Journals and read the little moments I realise how special they were.- Cuddles with the boys on the couch.
- Watching The Simpsons and eating popcorn.
- Building sandcastles and throwing the ball to the dog on the beach.
- Listening to the rain on the tin roof.
- Having dinner and lighting candles (because every night was a special occasion)
- Celebrating Valentines Day with the boys and me giving them flowers and chocolates because they are the loves of my life.
And the more I recognise Life's graces the more Blessings I get back in return. Call it luck or coincidence. I call it ..... I don't know what to call it. I just say "thank You" and note it down and fill up my life with Blessings.
I would encourage anybody who reads this post to start a Gratitude Journal.
If Your first reaction is "I don't know what to write" or "I have nothing to be grateful for" start small.
Start with only 5 items per day. Simple things like:
I am grateful for:
- a working wifi so I can surf the Net
- a good show on TV
- the smell of spring in the air
- a glass of wine
- being pain free for half an hour
- petrol in my car
- my job
- my husband
- my sons being happy and healthy
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